Do You And Your Partner Feel Like You’re Not On The Same Page Anymore?
Does the communication feel off?
Deep down, do both of you wish you could go back to when you first fell in love and the romance felt effortless?
Perhaps You Both Have Different Ideas About Your Future Together
Additionally, you may be thinking of getting married and moving in together. You probably want to ensure that you’re starting off on secure footing and have the skills to transition as a team. If you and your partner want to improve your communication and deepen your intimacy, we encourage you to pursue couples counseling with us. Here at Kind Mind Psychology, we help couples in New York and New Jersey have healthy communication, good sex lives, and more fulfilling relationships.
No Couple Sees Eye To Eye On Everything—And That’s Okay
But the truth is that there is no such thing as the perfect soulmate—and that’s okay. You and your partner don’t always have to see eye to eye or share the same opinions. It’s okay to have different values, goals, and ideas about intimacy. It’s not always about being on the same page—it’s about moving toward a shared conclusion. Maturing as a couple means acknowledging your differences and making appropriate compromises for the sake of the relationship.
Many Non-Traditional Couples Don’t Have Role Models To Look Up To
As a practice, we work with both traditional and non-traditional couples. If you and your partner feel like you’re out in uncharted territory, we’re here to help you navigate it.
Therapy Can Help Couples Rekindle Their Love For Each Other
Answering these questions can help you and your partner gain insight into your differences and be more engaged with each other. We want to give both of you the skills to move forward as a couple and rekindle the spark that you had in the beginning of your relationship.
What To Expect In Couples Therapy Sessions
The goal of meeting individually is to enrich the joint sessions by going over personal issues in more detail. For instance, if one of you has a significant trauma history, meeting with your couples therapist individually gives you a chance to go deeper and explore how trauma shows up in your relationship. Doing this work gives your therapist a clearer idea of what interventions to use when you’re all meeting together.
Our Approach To Couples Therapy
We draw from a wide range of approaches to help couples, including:
Ultimately, the skills for improving your relationship are learnable. So no matter what your starting point is or what kind of relationships were modeled for you growing up, it is possible to learn the skills to have a fruitful, long-lasting relationship.
You May Have Some Questions About Marriage And Couples Counseling…
It is never too late! Oftentimes, couples get so stuck in negative patterns that they don’t think they’ll ever get out. They tell themselves: “My partner and I are just the way we are and nothing will ever change that.” But relationship skills really are learnable. By consistently implementing them consistently into your lives, you can transform the way you communicate and transform your relationship as a result.
Are you affirming of non-traditional relationships?
Doesn’t going to therapy mean we’re about to break up?
Reignite Your Emotional Bond With Couples Therapy
If you’re a couple in New York or New Jersey that wants to move forward and reestablish your loving connection, we are confident that we can help.
To get started, contact us or call (646) 918 – 1181.